Wednesday, March 31, 2010

Wedding Tip - Vanity Fare Caterers - March 31, 2010

Keeping all your wedding papers and contacts organized is a must when planning a wedding.

There are many books and organizers available at book and stationary stores. You can, however, quickly put together your own wedding planner, personalizing it to suit your needs. Not to mention, you will save yourself some money.

You will need:

1 3-inch three-ring binder
10 to 12 tabbed separator pages
Lined loose-leaf paper
10 to 12 clear, top-loading plastic protector sheets

Find a unique way to decorate the front cover, making this a unique book that you will want to save.

To create an organizer, take the tab pages and label each one with the following labels (make sure you put a few pages of paper in each section for notes):

o Calendar - create your own wedding countdown sheet or print one off from the Internet.
o Budget - keep your budget sheet here with estimated costs, actual costs, who's paying for each item
o Invitations & Thank You Cards - printing, guest list, postage, etc.
o Flowers - all flowers for both the reception and the ceremony, including bouquets
o Clothing - wedding dress, headpiece/veil, accessories, groom's attire, attendant's attire & accessories
o Wedding Ceremony - ceremony location, officiator, musicians, soloist, decorations, wedding programs, etc.
o Photography/Videographer - engagement photos, wedding photos, newspaper announcements, albums, videotaping, etc.
o Reception - location rental, table setup, plates & cutlery, decorations, entertainment, favors, labor, etc.
o Wedding Cake - wedding cake, groom's cake, cake topper, cake knife and server, etc.
o Food and Beverages - all food and beverages, serving tables, how it's to be served, etc.
o Honeymoon - transportation, accommodations, entertainment, clothing, etc.
o Miscellaneous - all the other stuff: transportation to and from wedding/reception, marriage license, blood tests, rehearsal dinner, gifts for attendants, any other expenses

Place a plastic protector sheet in each section as well. You will use these to hold contracts, receipts, price lists, pictures, clippings, brochures, and other related category information. Not only will you be able to quickly get your hands on a piece of needed correspondence or a receipt, you will also have a collection of mementos that can be used later for putting together a wedding scrapbook.

About Vanity Fare Caterers

Vanity Fare Caterers is one of the best wedding venues in New Jersey. See how our years of expertise can take the stress out of many of your decisions and make your wedding the "one of a kind" day you have dreamed about! As well as dream weddings, Vanity Fare Caterers is also your source for other special occasions including baby showers, bridal showers, birthday parties, communions, christenings, corporate holiday parties or retirement parties, Sweet 15 or Sweet 16 as well as Bar and Bat Mitzvahs. Just call us to schedule an appointment to come in and view our facilities. We're looking forward to hearing from you.

Contact Information

Vanity Fare Caterers
1600 Route 70 East
Lakewood, NJ 08701
Phone 732-364-6400
website http://www.vanityfarenj.com
Ask For Jen or Bob

Monday, March 29, 2010

Platinum Wedding Package at Vanity Fare Caterers

Our Platinum Wedding Package Includes:

Five Hour Premium Brand Open Bar
Ice Sculpture
Private Bridal Suite**
Chair Covers, Bows, Silk Flower Centerpieces
Choice of Linens
Champagne Toast & Unlimited Champagne
Bottled Wine Service

Also Included Are:

Cocktail hour selection
Hors d'oeuvres served buffet style as well as butler style
International cold salad display
Two attended chef stations
Main course reception with two courses
Main entree orders taken tableside - guests will have three choices
Dessert service with personalized wedding cake and one other item
Coffee and tea service

Please call us at (732) 364-6400 so we can help you customize your menu choices. To see the full menu and all choices available please visit our menu page.

All Packages are subject to a tax and Service Charge.
*additional cost per person, please call for pricing.
**complimentary overnight accommodations in luxury bridal suite.

Vanity Fare Caterers
1600 Route 70 East
Lakewood, NJ 08701
732-364-6400
vanityfarenj@aol.com

Thursday, March 25, 2010

Seating Chart Suggestions

Does anyone have any suggestions on how to handle making a seating chart when not everyone gets along? Looking for advice to share with brides/grooms to be.

Wedding Tip - Vanity Fare Caterers - March 25, 2010

No one wants to consider the possibility that a wedding will not take place. However, should you decide to cancel your event, do not expect your deposits back!

Some state laws contend that a deposit given to secure a time, service, or product is not refundable. The only reason a deposit would be returned is if the vendor providing the service/product is unable to deliver as promised and those terms of refund may be defined in the contract and limited to certain circumstances.

Deposits are used to purchase product or cover labor and time involved in preparing for an event, regardless of whether or not the event takes place, and cannot be returned later.

About Vanity Fare Caterers

Vanity Fare Caterers is one of the best wedding venues in New Jersey. See how our years of expertise can take the stress out of many of your decisions and make your wedding the "one of a kind" day you have dreamed about! As well as dream weddings, Vanity Fare Caterers is also your source for other special occasions including baby showers, bridal showers, birthday parties, communions, christenings, corporate holiday parties or retirement parties, Sweet 15 or Sweet 16 as well as Bar and Bat Mitzvahs. Just call us to schedule an appointment to come in and view our facilities. We're looking forward to hearing from you.

Contact Information

Vanity Fare Caterers
1600 Route 70 East
Lakewood, NJ 08701
Phone 732-364-6400
website http://www.vanityfarenj.com
Ask For Jen or Bob

Tuesday, March 23, 2010

Vanity Fare Caterers Wedding Tip March 23, 2010

People are often apprehensive of giving toasts. But, for a wedding, it is hard to avoid this duty if you play a key part. Here are a few tips for making the perfect toast; do not be long winded, stand to give your toast, (remain seated if you are being toasted), prepare your speech ahead of time (and practice it), mention the person(s) you are honoring by name as well as what your relationship to them is and say something nice about the event you are at, add a funny (and tasteful) story, speak slowly and loud enough for everyone to hear, and it’s usually a good idea to avoid alcohol before giving a toast. And, as a general rule, toasting usually goes like this: at the rehearsal dinner the best man toasts the bride, the bride toasts the groom, the groom toasts the bride’s mother and the bride’s father can toast the bride’s parents. At the reception, the best man toasts the bride and groom, the groom toasts the bride’s family, the two fathers toast the bride and groom, and the bride and groom toast each other. The maid of honor may also toast the bride and groom.

About Vanity Fare Caterers

Vanity Fare Caterers is one of the best wedding venues in New Jersey. See how our years of expertise can take the stress out of many of your decisions and make your wedding the "one of a kind" day you have dreamed about! As well as dream weddings, Vanity Fare Caterers is also your source for other special occasions including baby showers, bridal showers, birthday parties, communions, christenings, corporate holiday parties or retirement parties, Sweet 15 or Sweet 16 as well as Bar and Bat Mitzvahs. Just call us to schedule an appointment to come in and view our facilities. We're looking forward to hearing from you.

Contact Information

Vanity Fare Caterers
1600 Route 70 East
Lakewood, NJ 08701
Phone 732-364-6400
website http://www.vanityfarenj.com
Ask For Jen or Bob

Monday, March 22, 2010

Easter Brunch at Vanity Fare Caterers

Please join us on Sunday April 4, 2010 from 11am-3pm for our Easter Brunch. There will be an elaborate buffet with breakfast and lunch selections as well as an omelet and carving stations. Also included are a complimentary champagne cocktail, door prizes and live entertainment all for $24.95++ per person.

Please call us at (732) 364-6400 to make reservations.

We look forward to seeing you.

About Vanity Fare Caterers

Vanity Fare Caterers is one of the best wedding venues in New Jersey. See how our years of expertise can take the stress out of many of your decisions and make your wedding the "one of a kind" day you have dreamed about! As well as dream weddings, Vanity Fare Caterers is also your source for other special occasions including baby showers, bridal showers, birthday parties, communions, christenings, corporate holiday parties or retirement parties, Sweet 15 or Sweet 16 as well as Bar and Bat Mitzvahs. Just call us to schedule an appointment to come in and view our facilities. We're looking forward to hearing from you.

Contact Information

Vanity Fare Caterers
1600 Route 70 East
Lakewood, NJ 08701
Phone 732-364-6400
website http://www.vanityfarenj.com
Ask For Jen or Bob

Thursday, March 18, 2010

Wedding Tip March 17, 2010 Vanity Fare Caterers

There are so many traditions associated with weddings. Have you ever wondered where they come from? The tradition of throwing a shower for the bride originated with a Dutch maiden who fell in love with a poor miller. Her friends "showered" them with numerous gifts to replace her missing dowry. The bride and groom kiss at the end of the ceremony, it is said, as an exchange - each partner sends a part themselves into the new spouse's soul. Here's an odd one from Scotland: The bride is supposed to meet her mother at the door after the ceremony who then must break a currant bun over her daughter's head if she wants a good marriage. And, the best one yet - If a cat sneezes on the day before her wedding, the bride will be ensured a happy union!

About Vanity Fare Caterers

Vanity Fare Caterers is one of the best wedding venues in New Jersey. See how our years of expertise can take the stress out of many of your decisions and make your wedding the "one of a kind" day you have dreamed about! As well as dream weddings, Vanity Fare Caterers is also your source for other special occasions including baby showers, bridal showers, birthday parties, communions, christenings, corporate holiday parties or retirement parties, Sweet 15 or Sweet 16 as well as Bar and Bat Mitzvahs. Just call us to schedule an appointment to come in and view our facilities. We're looking forward to hearing from you.

Please visit us on Facebook to see wedding photos and videos as well as other information. Become a fan and stay up to date on all our events.

Contact Information

Vanity Fare Caterers
1600 Route 70 East
Lakewood, NJ 08701
Phone 732-364-6400
website http://www.vanityfarenj.com/
Ask For Jen or Bob

Tuesday, March 16, 2010

Wedding Tip March 16, 2010 Vanity Fare Caterers

In most cultures, a wedding ring is traditionally worn on the ring finger. It is believed that this originated from a Roman tradition in which a man gave a ring to the woman at the betrothal ceremony. The wedding ring is worn on the left ring finger because the vein in the left ring finger was believed to be directly connected to the heart. The Christian wedding ceremony of Medieval Europe included placing the ring first on the index finger, then the middle and finally the ring finger of the left hand, where it stayed. This practice was to represent the Holy Trinity — God the Father, the Son and the Holy Spirit. A Greek Orthodox bride wears the ring on her left hand prior to the ceremony, and then moves it to the right hand after the wedding while in England, the 1549 Prayer Book declared "the ring shall be placed on the left hand”. Typically in places like Norway, Russia, Bulgaria, Poland, Austria, Denmark, Latvia and Spain, also in Indian tradition, the wedding ring is worn on the right ring finger. In the Jewish wedding ceremony, the groom places the ring on the bride's index finger and the ring is then moved to the ring finger after the ceremony.

About Vanity Fare Caterers

Vanity Fare Caterers is one of the best wedding venues in New Jersey. See how our years of expertise can take the stress out of many of your decisions and make your wedding the "one of a kind" day you have dreamed about! As well as dream weddings, Vanity Fare Caterers is also your source for other special occasions including baby showers, bridal showers, birthday parties, communions, christenings, corporate holiday parties or retirement parties, Sweet 15 or Sweet 16 as well as Bar and Bat Mitzvahs. Just call us to schedule an appointment to come in and view our facilities. We're looking forward to hearing from you.

Contact Information

Vanity Fare Caterers
1600 Route 70 East
Lakewood, NJ 08701
Phone 732-364-6400
website http://www.vanityfarenj.com
Ask For Jen or Bob

Sunday, March 14, 2010

March 14, 2010 Wedding Tip Vanity Fare Caterers

Be aware of the warning signs that you may not be dealing with someone who is professional when looking for a consultant, vendor or catering hall. The most obvious signs are low customer satisfaction, lack of references, and not being able to hire your own vendors but, rather insisting that you use only their vendors. When you are looking to hire a wedding planner or to book a facility, you want to know that the person you are working with comes highly recommended and that they will listen to you and help you to create the wedding of your dreams.

About Vanity Fare Caterers

Vanity Fare Caterers is one of the best wedding venues in New Jersey. See how our years of expertise can take the stress out of many of your decisions and make your wedding the "one of a kind" day you have dreamed about! As well as dream weddings, Vanity Fare Caterers is also your source for other special occasions including baby showers, bridal showers, birthday parties, communions, christenings, corporate holiday parties or retirement parties, Sweet 15 or Sweet 16 as well as Bar and Bat Mitzvahs. Just call us to schedule an appointment to come in and view our facilities. We're looking forward to hearing from you.

Contact Information

Vanity Fare Caterers
1600 Route 70 East
Lakewood, NJ 08701
Phone 732-364-6400
website http://www.vanityfarenj.com
Ask For Jen or Bob

Friday, March 12, 2010

Wedding Tip March 12, 2010 Vanity Fare Caterers

When it comes time to book a band or DJ, make sure that you ask around. Talk to people and find out who they have used. If you can find out when and where a particular band is playing, then it would be a good idea to hear them first. The same is true for a DJ.

The best way to find one is to attend a Bridal Showcase which usually features not only entertainment companies, but other vendors as well.

After several years experience in this business, I find that the best DJs are with Versatile, NJ's Best DJs, Wedding Set Go and Elite Entertainment.

Vanity Fare Caterers
1600 Route 70 East
Lakewood, NJ 08701
Phone 732-364-6400
vanityfarenj@aol.com

Wednesday, March 10, 2010

Vanity Fare Caterers Platinum Wedding Package

Our Platinum Wedding Package includes:

Five Hour Premium Brand Open Bar
Ice Sculpture
Private Bridal Suite**
Chair Covers, Bows, Silk Flower Centerpieces
Choice of Linens
Champagne Toast & Unlimited Champagne
Bottled Wine Service

Also included are:

Cocktail hour selection
Hors d'oeuvres served buffet style as well as butler style
International cold salad display
Two attended chef stations
Main course reception with two courses
Main entree orders taken tableside - guests will have three choices
Dessert service with personalized wedding cake and one other item
Coffee and tea service

Please call us at (732) 364-6400 so we can help you customize your menu choices. To see the full menu and all choices available please visit our menu page.

All Packages are subject to a tax and Service Charge.
*additional cost per person, please call for pricing.
**complimentary overnight accommodations in luxury bridal suite.

Vanity Fare Caterers
1600 Route 70 East
Lakewood, NJ 08701
732-364-6400
vanityfarenj@aol.com

Monday, March 8, 2010

Vanity Fare Caterers Sunday Easter Brunch

Please join us on Sunday April 4, 2010 from 11am-3pm for our Easter Brunch. There will be an elaborate buffet with breakfast and lunch selections as well as an omelet and carving stations. Also included are a complimentary champagne cocktail, door prizes and live entertainment all for $24.95++ per person.

Please call us at (732) 364-6400 to make reservations.

We look forward to seeing you.

About Vanity Fare Caterers

Vanity Fare Caterers is one of the best wedding venues in New Jersey. See how our years of expertise can take the stress out of many of your decisions and make your wedding the "one of a kind" day you have dreamed about! As well as dream weddings, Vanity Fare Caterers is also your source for other special occasions including baby showers, bridal showers, birthday parties, communions, christenings, corporate holiday parties or retirement parties, Sweet 15 or Sweet 16 as well as Bar and Bat Mitzvahs. Just call us to schedule an appointment to come in and view our facilities. We're looking forward to hearing from you.

Contact Information

Vanity Fare Caterers
1600 Route 70 East
Lakewood, NJ 08701
Phone 732-364-6400
website http://www.vanityfarenj.com
Ask For Jen or Bob

Saturday, March 6, 2010

Vanity Fare Caterers Wedding Tip March 6, 2010

Why "something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue"? The "old" was usually a personal gift from mother to daughter, a symbolic piece of wisdom for married life. "Something new" symbolized the new family formed by the couple. "Borrowing" is especially important, since it is to come from a happily married woman, thereby lending the bride some of her own marital bliss to carry into the new union. Blue has two traditions: Pagan Roman maidens wore blue on the borders of their robes to denote love, modesty and fidelity, while Christians associate it with the purity of the Virgin Mary.

About Vanity Fare Caterers

Vanity Fare Caterers is one of the best wedding venues in New Jersey. See how our years of expertise can take the stress out of many of your decisions and make your wedding the "one of a kind" day you have dreamed about! As well as dream weddings, Vanity Fare Caterers is also your source for other special occasions including baby showers, bridal showers, birthday parties, communions, christenings, corporate holiday parties or retirement parties, Sweet 15 or Sweet 16 as well as Bar and Bat Mitzvahs. Just call us to schedule an appointment to come in and view our facilities. We're looking forward to hearing from you.

Contact Information

Vanity Fare Caterers
1600 Route 70 East
Lakewood, NJ 08701
Phone 732-364-6400
website http://www.vanityfarenj.com
Ask For Jen or Bob

Friday, March 5, 2010

March 5, 2010 Wedding Tip from Vanity Fare Caterers

In theory, if you can get through the stress of planning a wedding together, you should be able to get through anything, right? Well, here is some time-tested wisdom to help couples get through the rough patches:

Try not to be angry at the same time;

Never go to bed angry or without having settled an argument;

Remember to treat each other with respect – too often we treat total strangers better than we treat our loved ones so try not to take each other for granted;

If you do have to say something critical, try to do it in a gentle manner – point out a positive before you point out the negative;

Let the past go – once you have forgiven past mistakes you must mean it! (And admit when you do something wrong)

Choose your battles – sometimes you come out ahead by letting your spouse win an argument (remember it takes two to make an argument – sometimes it’s better if you just back out);

Try to say something nice to each other every day;

Sometimes you have to put the whole world on hold and remember to spend time together – staying connected is so important and so easily lost in the chaos of everyday life!

About Vanity Fare Caterers

Vanity Fare Caterers is one of the best wedding venues in New Jersey. See how our years of expertise can take the stress out of many of your decisions and make your wedding the "one of a kind" day you have dreamed about! As well as dream weddings, Vanity Fare Caterers is also your source for other special occasions including baby showers, bridal showers, birthday parties, communions, christenings, corporate holiday parties or retirement parties, Sweet 15 or Sweet 16 as well as Bar and Bat Mitzvahs. Just call us to schedule an appointment to come in and view our facilities. We're looking forward to hearing from you.

Contact Information

Vanity Fare Caterers
1600 Route 70 East
Lakewood, NJ 08701
Phone 732-364-6400
website http://www.vanityfarenj.com
Ask For Jen or Bob

Thursday, March 4, 2010

Food Tasting Event at Vanity Fare Caterers March 24, 2010

Vanity Fare Caterers is hosting a Food Tasting Event on Wednesday, March 24, 2010 from 6:30pm to 8:30pm. This event is for couples still looking for a wedding facility. Couples can bring one (1) additional guest free. Any one extra is $25.00 per person.

Come experience our whie glove service as well as culinary delights with our chef prepared food stations and carving stations, complete with wedding cake, desserts and coffee. A cash bar will be available.

Our preferred vendors will be showcasing their items or services. These vendors offer their items or services at a special discounted price at this event. We will also offer special wedding packages that evening.

Reservations are required in advance and space is limited. Please call us at 732-364-6400 to register.

Vanity Fare Caterers
1600 Route 70 East
Lakewood, NJ 07081
(732) 364-6400
vanityfarenj@aol.com